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Scared to approach her?
Here is how you can combat the nervousness you feel around women
Are you someone who gets jittery whenever you are near a person you like? Do you feel anxious and nervous whenever you have to talk to a woman? Do you suffer from symptoms like fidgeting, not being able to maintain eye contact, gulping in fear, becoming drymouthed, being overly nice, tense facial muscles and laughing uneasily at all her jokes? If you do then you need to fight these feelings.
Begin by trying to feel to relaxed. Your first priority when you are interacting with a woman is to make her feel comfortable and relaxed around you. And if you are nervous, you will find that it will be almost impossible to do this. Here are some insights on overcoming nervousness around women...
First of all you need to change the way you think about yourself. Your body language needs to be confident and that will help you not just to look confident but will help you believe that you are. Stop right now if you feel that you are not good enough. Change your tone of voice and speak authoritatively and confidently. Square your shoulders, pull in your paunch and stride confidently towards the woman you want to talk to.
A smile can do wonders for your composure. An endearing sort of smile can actually do the magic that can take you far. Even before you have reached the person a smile from afar can begin to communicate that you are a friendly, social person. If a woman sees a man smile she gets the hint that he is interested in her and she responds accordingly. So feel positive and smile encouragingly at the girl you want to approach.
Every body language expert and every book on relationship will tell you how important it is to initiate eye contact and hold it. A woman wouldn’t like it if a man is not able to maintain eye-contact and looks away from her.
Of course you don’t have to stare her down during your interactions, but, if your eyes do happen to meet, you should be comfortable enough to maintain the eye contact.
A simple way of overcoming nervousness is to slow down your thoughts and movements, and behave in a relaxed manner. Control your anxiety and do not try to do things fast and in a haphazard way.
A discussion on the subject both of you like will help you to break the ice and then both of you can enjoy a casual conversation.
Make an effort to follow these dos and don’ts the next time you are out in public with a woman, and you’ll see the difference.
Health and Relationship:Scared to approach her?
Here is how you can combat the nervousness you feel around women
Are you someone who gets jittery whenever you are near a person you like? Do you feel anxious and nervous whenever you have to talk to a woman? Do you suffer from symptoms like fidgeting, not being able to maintain eye contact, gulping in fear, becoming drymouthed, being overly nice, tense facial muscles and laughing uneasily at all her jokes? If you do then you need to fight these feelings.
Begin by trying to feel to relaxed. Your first priority when you are interacting with a woman is to make her feel comfortable and relaxed around you. And if you are nervous, you will find that it will be almost impossible to do this. Here are some insights on overcoming nervousness around women...
First of all you need to change the way you think about yourself. Your body language needs to be confident and that will help you not just to look confident but will help you believe that you are. Stop right now if you feel that you are not good enough. Change your tone of voice and speak authoritatively and confidently. Square your shoulders, pull in your paunch and stride confidently towards the woman you want to talk to.
A smile can do wonders for your composure. An endearing sort of smile can actually do the magic that can take you far. Even before you have reached the person a smile from afar can begin to communicate that you are a friendly, social person. If a woman sees a man smile she gets the hint that he is interested in her and she responds accordingly. So feel positive and smile encouragingly at the girl you want to approach.
Every body language expert and every book on relationship will tell you how important it is to initiate eye contact and hold it. A woman wouldn’t like it if a man is not able to maintain eye-contact and looks away from her.
Of course you don’t have to stare her down during your interactions, but, if your eyes do happen to meet, you should be comfortable enough to maintain the eye contact.
A simple way of overcoming nervousness is to slow down your thoughts and movements, and behave in a relaxed manner. Control your anxiety and do not try to do things fast and in a haphazard way.
A discussion on the subject both of you like will help you to break the ice and then both of you can enjoy a casual conversation.
Make an effort to follow these dos and don’ts the next time you are out in public with a woman, and you’ll see the difference.
Health and Relationship:Scared to approach her?
